The links below are to sites which I consider to be exemplary for what they do and represent. Feel free to let me of others you think I have missed. The selections reflect my own tastes and predilections.


The Submissive Guide
A website filled with helpful information to help a submissive find her/him-self

Keeping it Kinky
A Guide to BDSM and alternative sex by mistress Kashiko

Bad Girls Bible
Learn how to be submissive and have kinkier sex

The Cage
A website dedicated to helping you meet people in the BDSM community

Thought of as the “Facebook” for the kink community, a way to meet people and learn

Femme-Domme Chronicles
Blog of an Australian Domme with tons of resources and insights.

Sexual Politics and Femdom

De-gendering fashion is an anti-violence imperative

Award-winning Canadian political e-zine. Particularly good coverage on trans issues.

Femdom 101
Musings on life and D/s from a Femdom couple

Côte de Boeuf
60 days aged rib steak, pepper sauce, fondant potatoes

Duck à l’Orange
Roasted duck breast with crispy skin and velvety citrus sauce

Pea and Asparagus Risotto
With goat’s cheese, rocket and baby shoot salad

Blogs of Note

The Kinky World of Vile
A NSFW exploration of the world of D/s and BDSM

Become Her Slave
A wonderful romp into the world of FLR

Blanche Black
Female Leadership of Men and Society

True Domme
A dominant woman’s discovery of the irrelevance of men

Submissive Male
A wonderful blog from a submissive male into FLR

The Femdom Art of Sardax, illustrator of fantasy

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